Moments that Cultivate Big Change

Be Bold, Keep Moving Up

I was doing research for a blog post I was asked to write on food when I came across a video that I couldn’t stop watching. The clip was from Michael Buble’s tour in 2010 and watching it reminded me of a time when I was young and believed in impossible dreams.

The world I grew up in wasn’t horrible but let’s just say it was more akin to The Wire than Hannah Montana. I spent most of my time outside of school, doing my homework, in the back alley of my parents billiard–there’s nothing like a desolate ally to make kids ask for more challenging math problems. Hollywood was a pipe dream, but one that I thought about incessantly. On some crazy level I was sure that one day I’d be hanging out with my friends on the set of Friends.

Of course once I got older, I came to my senses and stopped watching TV. The revolution on learning hadn’t yet been developed and a feasible route for me was to study medicine. Unlike most kids I actually did enjoy the sciences and loved learning

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Appreciating Experience rather than Memory

I’ve been sick for the past week but I don’t do sick very well, so even though I’m immobilized physically I still want to be somewhat productive. As such, I’ve been watching tons of “Tedtalks.” I’d probably watched about 10 or 15 of them when I came across one that I found very relevant to the way I live my life.

TED Talks

In it, Daniel Kahneman discusses the pursuit of Happiness. Not necessarily how we achieve it but how we find it in our experiences and subsequently our memories. Experiences create memory but there is a distinct difference between the two because we put so much more weight on memory versus the experience. Kahneman says, “Time is the critical variable that differentiates our experiencing self from our remembering self…time has very little impact on the story.” So if we change the way we look at time, most notably as this thing that seems to pass us by too quickly or something we never have enough of, and instead recognize its non-importance—I’m certain therein lies a key to happiness. We don’t have the capacity to remember everything, so our

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Being Influenced by Andrew Bird

Andrew Bird @ the House of Blues Houston

I went to an Andrew Bird concert the other day and I was blown away by his musical ability. The guy played, a violin, guitar, and xylophone while operating a looping mechanism via a foot pedal. His small band consisting of two guitarists, a keyboardist, and himself reminded me of Robert Rodriguez—the Rebel without a Crew. He had a gift. An ear for music…a natural talent. I knew then that I would never become a musician.

 

Three years ago, I walked into a Guitar Center store and dropped $750 on a fully weighted 88-key keyboard. They threw in a foot pedal and some sheet music and all of a sudden I was a beginner musician. I found a piano teacher who I liked and I set out to exercise my fingers.

We met once a week for half an hour and then he gave me homework assignments, which I poured myself into, but then he introduced me to the metronome. Designed to help musicians keep the beat it completely threw me out of wack. I couldn’t keep up and, consequently, we

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The Manuscript

Hey Jamie gets a facelift!!! But in addition to that the first completed draft of the manuscript I’ve been slaving away at for the past 15 months has arrived. Three-hundred and seventy seven pages of words that I hope readers will enjoy…

What a day!

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Be Someone in One Minute

Today was the second time that I came across this photo:

Be Someone Graffitti on the 59 freeway in Houston

Yes–I took the photo while driving which I am in no way condoning, but in my defense we were stuck in traffic. In any case I was waiting for a while to write an article about how we should all strive to “Be Someone.” Not someone famous or rich or even powerful, just someone who brings meaning into other people’s lives.

Today I came across a website:

http://oneminutewonder.tv/

I thought was really cool. They’re one minute videos about wondrous people who have made unique lives for themselves doing what they love. Right now there are 27 videos that I think can inspire others to follow their dreams so I wanted to post it up here. Enjoy!

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From Ronan to Emma

 

It’s not often that I find myself listening to a song on repeat, but I was surfing the iTunes main page when I came across the “Stand Up 2 Cancer” telethon hosted by a variety of celebrities. I had it on in the background when this melancholy melody began—I was hooked. It was Taylor Swift singing “Ronan” with nothing but a simple microphone and minimalist band. There was nothing fancy about the performance…just honest lyrics and heart.

Aside from the songs I’d heard on the radio I didn’t know that much about Taylor Swift so when I saw her cry while singing this song, I thought Ronan had to be her brother or cousin or something. A couple clicks on Google though and I was baffled to find that she had never even met him. The girl created one of the most personal and heart wrenching songs based on a blog that Ronan’s mother created when he became ill with cancer nine months before his death.

Her lyrics…they were strong and every time I heard them a new image came to mind. “I love you to the moon and back,”—a young mom leaning over her son’s crib,

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From Big City to Small Town

Main Street in Sutton, Nebraska

In the past few weeks I’ve found myself in a constant state of disquiet. I worried about: the recent distance I’d put between my family and myself, where I was going to be in six months, the decisions I’d made in the past, the ones I knew I would make in the near future…I had buckets full of paint and no idea what picture I wanted to create.

Then on a flight from Bakersfield to my new hometown of Houston, I sat next to a woman who had only one direction she was going in life—building a family. She was from Nebraska; grew up in a town whose population was 1,300–roughly the size of my high school student body and she had no intention of leaving.

We couldn’t have been more different. I was a city girl, living in a world of concrete walls and high rises and she lived on 52 acres of lush green farmland. I passed by a thousand strangers everyday whereas I was probably the only stranger she’d met in weeks. This was going to be a very quiet plane ride

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From Small Beginnings…

Diamonds in the making...

“A diamond is just a piece of charcoal that handled stress exceptionally well.”- Anonymous

I was home visiting my family two weeks ago and at 5:00 a.m., after a restless night’s sleep. I found myself thinking, “My life is hard.” It wasn’t a complaint, but a simple truth that I felt guilty for thinking. My family depends on me for a lot: business managements, legal questions, document drafting, research, tech problems, physical labor…the list is endless and variety vast.

To be clear, I don’t have a degree in any of these subjects. What I do have is a strong grasp on the English language, which translates to my immigrant parents as having a copious amount of knowledge. I’m not complaining about it, but combined with the stress of my own fledgling career, I find going home to be overwhelming.

In fact, I don’t think I knew what it felt like to relax at home until I spent a weekend with a boyfriend and his family one summer in New Jersey. Sprawled out on the couches and floor, we were passing around popcorn in

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